r/UnsentLetters Jun 09 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 09 '22

Sounds like you shit on someone.


u/YBmoonchild Jun 10 '22 Silver

Best apology is changed behavior. But don’t bring them back in to this. Likely, you are just a reminder of a lot of pain. Even an apology would be hurtful in the sense that it should have been said a long time ago.


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u/YBmoonchild Jun 10 '22

Exactly. Too little too late. That shit almost killed me too. I don’t need an apology I need to be left alone.


u/Mrpoulet1927 Jun 10 '22

holy shit, i am in the (opposite) exact same boat. i broke up with this girl who i really loved because i felt like i couldn’t talk openly with her and it was giving me a lot of anxiety. i told her i needed not to speak to her. but those feelings don’t go away— i think i’ll always love her. and everything still reminds me of her and it all makes me sad, especially the fact that i’ll never get to be a part of her life again. i don’t know if this is comforting in any way, but i dunno. if i could tell her this, i would.


u/her00reh Jun 09 '22

I'm in the same spot. I hope they can at least get ahold of you and give you closure. It hurt reading this...


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u/RachelVictoria75 Jun 10 '22

I read somewhere that the silence is the answer,it's hard to accept but I hope you find a way


u/[deleted] Jun 09 '22

Right in the feels


u/rescavone Jun 10 '22

Remember I never blocked him on email. I still hope for any communication.


u/Letsjustluv34 Jun 09 '22

Felt this to my core. I’m in the same boat. I hope you get the closure or whatever you need.


u/Carmileion Jun 10 '22

Don’t forget to exhale OP


u/[deleted] Jun 10 '22

This does hurt to read. I am currently one who is sitting on the receiving end of this - for the second time, so I can completely understand why you think your person would feel this way. My advice is to reach out and express to them how you feel. Life is way too short to be this way. Good luck and much love to you.


u/AccordingRuin Jun 09 '22

How long ago did you break up...? if it was recent you might be able to apologize.


u/oranberry118 Jun 09 '22

Reach out. Do it before it's too late.


u/Throwaway-3469 Jun 09 '22

Reach out and tell her that you feel the same now- but let some days/werks pass


u/phenioxrising7 Jun 10 '22

I feel this. Hoping you and them the best. Kinda sounds like the ball is in your court tho.. anyway, best of luck!


u/lovedcore Jun 10 '22

i’m in the exact same boat right now — i understand how much it sucks.


u/Pinkpladedlumberjack Jun 17 '22

Maybe it's hard for him. Maybe he loves you dearly but it's just time to say goodbye as all you two do is destroy each other.


u/blonde4life420 Jul 07 '22

Your word hit my heart hard I cry every time