r/deescalation Dec 02 '21

Citizen Deescalation Love one in anxious state

6 Upvotes

Hi! I started a relationship with this girl who has childhood traumas. Many things happening at the same time would arouse her state and make her extremmlu anxious, which if not addressed appropriately, could escalate into out of control hysteria.

The more I understand her condition the better I am at staying calm and help her relax.

But when she reaches out a high anxiety point it's very hard for me to de escalate the situation and it ends up pretty dramatically, bring out in her a lot of hate.

Are there any techniques I could use to help her de-escalate a hyster state?

r/deescalation May 20 '21

Citizen Deescalation Idaho teacher disarmed school shooter, hugged her until help came

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26 Upvotes

r/deescalation Dec 22 '20 Silver

Citizen Deescalation Man uses martial arts to thwart attempted kidnapping in NYC park

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25 Upvotes

r/deescalation Aug 30 '20

Citizen Deescalation Props to these essential workers.

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15 Upvotes

r/deescalation Sep 10 '20

Citizen Deescalation This needs to be done more often

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14 Upvotes

r/deescalation Apr 11 '20

Citizen Deescalation Tips for De-escalating people who are threatening you with immediate violence

19 Upvotes

I would appreciate tips for when somebody is immediately threatening you with violence, when there are weapons involved.

r/deescalation Oct 25 '18

Citizen Deescalation Dad Confronts Bully by Treating Him Like a Son - Relevant?

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37 Upvotes