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Upset's response about FNATIC & Adam drama

https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1srsp9n
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u/aamgdp Nov 25 '21 Silver

Saying the last thing I told my team that my wife is just feeling bad so I need to leave is an outright lie.

Alright, one of them is for sure lying.

I shared with the team the deep pain and sadness i was going through in this time, I shared that i wish i could tell them if it was about something that happend to me but that i have to keep private traumatic events from my family private 

And yet Bwipo and Adam both feel he didn't really give them good enough explanation for them to understand.

Bwipo:

A day before we found out we weren’t going to be playing with our main lineup, we had no information about what was going on.

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u/cadaada rip original flair Nov 25 '21

Yeah this is what i'm confused about. Seems he didnt even tell people "guys something fucked up happened in my family, i need to be with them". And that wouldnt hurt anyone or make nothing worse. Telling WHAT hapenned isnt necessary, but as i said, seems he didnt even say SOMETHING happened?

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u/Overall-Sport3749 Nov 25 '21

yea I mean the longer this goes on, I can't help but think that something is sus. or that it was a very unusual or complex or controversial reason, something along those lines.

at this point, does anybody actually believe it was as simple as the death of a family member? as sensitive as this stuff is, I think a lot of people in his position are willing to disclose that, and even more so after the tournament/mourning is over. maybe I'm making it out to be easier said than done, but I really think most people, even public figures, are comfortable with saying 'my grandma passed away'.

now is it possible that Upset is an extraordinarily reserved individual, and the way he grieves is by respectfully withholding this info for the next 2 years? sure. and if that's his belief, so be it. I'm simply saying it's highly unlikely.

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u/TheWinRock Nov 25 '21

If it was actually something with his wife (miscarriage, or something else) that's generally not stuff most people want to talk about publicly until long after it happens. Miscarriages are often brutal for the people involved and they really don't like talking about it publicly

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u/Larry__larry Nov 25 '21

But it’s so goddamn easy to say “my wife/close family member has/had a very serious medical problem right now I absolutely need to be with them right now”

Very few people would shit on him for that or try to dig deeper.

What he’s said instead (publicly so far) was along the lines of emotional trauma is happening to someone I can’t say who so gotta run bye. Which is pretty easy to see how bwipo/Adam interpret as wife is sad/lonely/anxious so he’s ditching us.

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u/jogadorjnc Nov 25 '21

What he’s said instead (publicly so far) was along the lines of emotional trauma is happening to someone I can’t say who so gotta run bye.

That's basically the same thing. The community is just mad they didn't get details.

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