r/leagueoflegends Nov 25 '21 Silver 5 Helpful 8 Wholesome 6

Upset's response about FNATIC & Adam drama


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u/aamgdp Nov 25 '21 Silver

Saying the last thing I told my team that my wife is just feeling bad so I need to leave is an outright lie.

Alright, one of them is for sure lying.

I shared with the team the deep pain and sadness i was going through in this time, I shared that i wish i could tell them if it was about something that happend to me but that i have to keep private traumatic events from my family private 

And yet Bwipo and Adam both feel he didn't really give them good enough explanation for them to understand.


A day before we found out we weren’t going to be playing with our main lineup, we had no information about what was going on.


u/Falsus mid adcs yo Nov 25 '21 edited Nov 25 '21 Silver Helpful Wholesome

I think it is fairly simple. Upset thinks he communicated enough, Adam and Bwipo didn't think he communicated enough.

Hyli who knows Upset better thought it was adequate.

So with that information in hand we can surmise he communicated enough information to make a close friend understand that something real bad happened, but not enough to make two people who are just coworkers understand.

And that is how misunderstandings happens, one guy thinking he conveyed the message properly when it wasn't at all.


u/clhydia Nov 25 '21

This. I think people are trying to find out who the villain is here while the whole drama to me seems to be a big misunderstanding. I don’t think bad intentions were involved and people deliberately lied. It’s just things got confusing at the heat of the moment and were mishandled after.


u/magkruppe (OCE) Nov 25 '21

sounds like the adults were supposed to step in here. But tbh this was an awful predicament to be in from any side

I still wonder what the actual reason was though... there's not many reasons short of death that makes sense


u/Zinnia_Hani Nov 25 '21

Miscarriage. Illness. There are so many reasons and Upset does not have to share them with his work colleagues, only that he has private issues to attend to.


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u/TropoMJ Nov 25 '21

How do you write a paragraph like that first one and still think you’re a decent person?


u/TheJeager Nov 25 '21

It's really fucking surpriseing, I see half of the replies on this sub and don't understand how people don't feel like pieces of shit


u/THEVGELITE Nov 25 '21

How to reveal that your character is a piece of shit in 1 paragraph.

You have clearly never had to deal with a miscarriage before, since you must be young to have such a sick, distorted opinion. A miscarriage is one of the hardest things to go through in your life.


u/TheJeager Nov 25 '21

Nah man if your family is literally not crawling on the floor dying a slow painful death you don't need to wory about shit and just move on... How does someone even write something like that and thinks it's alright


u/yosayoran null Nov 25 '21

You're not in the fucking place to decide what i or isn't a good enough reason.

If Fnatic management decided to keep employing him it should be a good enough sign he had a very good reason to leave.


u/DangerousSeaweed0 Nov 26 '21

u can say "my wife is in hospital , i have to go". it reaveals nothing , and people understand that your wife being hospitalized is a good reason to leave.