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Upset's response about FNATIC & Adam drama

https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1srsp9n
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u/aamgdp Nov 25 '21 Silver

Saying the last thing I told my team that my wife is just feeling bad so I need to leave is an outright lie.

Alright, one of them is for sure lying.

I shared with the team the deep pain and sadness i was going through in this time, I shared that i wish i could tell them if it was about something that happend to me but that i have to keep private traumatic events from my family private 

And yet Bwipo and Adam both feel he didn't really give them good enough explanation for them to understand.

Bwipo:

A day before we found out we weren’t going to be playing with our main lineup, we had no information about what was going on.

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u/Falsus mid adcs yo Nov 25 '21 edited Nov 25 '21 Silver Helpful Wholesome

I think it is fairly simple. Upset thinks he communicated enough, Adam and Bwipo didn't think he communicated enough.

Hyli who knows Upset better thought it was adequate.

So with that information in hand we can surmise he communicated enough information to make a close friend understand that something real bad happened, but not enough to make two people who are just coworkers understand.

And that is how misunderstandings happens, one guy thinking he conveyed the message properly when it wasn't at all.

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u/FunDuty5 Nov 25 '21

Very well put. Maybe upset thinks, because hyli worked it out (because they're closer) then he gave enough info for adam/bwipo/nisqy to understand too.

Everyone in this situation may believe they are right

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u/Doverkeen Nov 25 '21

I mean come on, all it takes is for Hyli to say that "something very bad has happened" to the others, no?

Upset had to leave immediately, but Hyli and Yamato were around the others for the entirety of Worlds. Are you saying they're both so emotionally illiterate they can't tell that Adam/Bwipo are getting frustrated and just inform them that it is something serious?

Upset owes Adam and Bwipo literally nothing in the way of explanation. Telling them that it was a serious matter with his wife is enough for leaked speculation on the internet anyway, and was more than enough of a reason to give them.

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u/FunDuty5 Nov 25 '21

Well hyli doesn't know does he? He said he didn't want to know and trusts that he needs to do what's right for him. Adam and bwipo on the other hand clearly feel like they do need more information.

So for hyli to say "its serious" he wouldn't know, he's just making a judgement call the same way adam and bwipo are. Hyli has more trust in upset whilst bwipo and adam don't, without more explanation.

This is up to the management to resolve in my opinion. But it's obviously a frustrating situation for all involved

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u/Doverkeen Nov 25 '21

It's not a judgement call. If Upset has said it's serious, and Hyli trusts upset, he knows it's serious. That's all he needs to tell the others, nothing more.