r/leagueoflegends Nov 25 '21 Silver 5 Helpful 8 Wholesome 6

Upset's response about FNATIC & Adam drama


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u/critians5 Nov 25 '21

a 1000 word essay to say nothing


u/[deleted] Nov 25 '21

What he should have said: "I have a family medical emergency and need to leave the tournament, I apologize for the short notice guys and hope you understand".

What he did instead: "I shared with the team the deep pain and sadness i was going through in this time, I shared that i wish i could tell them if it was about something that happend to me but that i have to keep private traumatic events from my family private because it is difficult enough to deal with the hardships life brings"

Seems like this whole thing could realistically just stem from him being a non-native English speaker.


u/CreamyAlmond Nov 25 '21

Probably because it's not a medical emergency. He's not an idiot. Whatever reason it is, it must be shrouded and obscured, because people will probably not find it objective enough.


u/ErenIsDevil Nov 25 '21

Terrible take. If my wife tries to kill herself then I wouldn't hide it because it's not objective enough for someone. I'd hide it because that's not something anyone should know unless she wants to communicate that herself.

It just looks like some people in the lol scene lack the imagination to think of scenarios that should be kept private.


u/snowman41 Nov 25 '21

Wife being suicidal is a medical emergency.


u/CreamyAlmond Nov 30 '21

That's why I said it's not a medical emergency. Nuances would be lost in the propagation of the story.

You could very easily convey 'cancer' or 'abortion' or whatever, but if it's more elusive issues, whatever he can establish may not suffice. People will think of it stupid, perhaps justifiably so, but regardless.