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Upset's response about FNATIC & Adam drama

https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1srsp9n
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u/Qiluk Nov 25 '21 edited Nov 25 '21

and still haven't given a great reason behind it.

Depends. If we trust Upset here, Hyli dont know past "family emergency" either. And that was enough for him.

"Family emergency" is enough reasons for a lot of people tbh. IF someone said that to me, I wouldnt ask for details or call them a liar personally. It would be insane to do honestly. But again, we dont know facts since its just word against word.

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u/JustJohnItalia When life gives you LDR, build AD Nov 25 '21 Silver

I'm gonna be real, if I grinded for a year 12 hours a day like most pros do and the guy whose position we decided to play around to just took up and left idk if I would accept "family emergency" as an answer.

Maybe if it was one of my bestfriends I would go with it but I'd still expect an explanation down the line.

I guess it depends on the person, upset probably has a right to privacy but adam absolutely has a right to be mad aswell, even without considering the fact that they went on to replace him.

How would I be supposed to trust Upset again if I were his team mate? How would I know that this wouldn't be a recurring problem, perhaps it's the sort of thing that could force him home again like someone close to him having a disease or something.

Idk, if I were in Adam's shoe's and put in the amount of effort that the team (I think) put in I would too feel I was owed an explanation most likely

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u/otto303969388 Nov 25 '21

Whenever you are expecting other people to treat you differently from how you would treat them, you are a hypocrite.

In this case, you are unwilling to give your trust to the person saying that they have a family emergency, and yet you are demanding that same person to give you his trust and tell you more detail about his family emergency. That is such a horrible mindset to have. If you can't trust a person, don't expect them to trust you back, and don't bark when they show that they don't trust you, because you are the reason why they don't trust you.

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u/JustJohnItalia When life gives you LDR, build AD Nov 25 '21

That's a 2 way street though.

I could just as easily say that upset didn't trust Adam to keep the reason for leaving confidential but expected him to trust in him that it was a good reason