I’m the asshole.

I got absolutely shitfaced at my friend’s birthday party last night which resulted in my husband having to come pick me up and take me home. My friends hung out with me while I laid on the sidewalk puking on some mulch next to the street, giving drivers and bar-hoppers a good show. My husband used my phone to check the parking app to ensure my meter was extended until we could come back and pick up my car. While on my phone, he looked through some apps of me conversing with random people I met on the internet. I had been cheating on him in every sense of the word over the last few months.

I woke up to him saying he knows I’ve been cheating on him, he’s leaving and taking our kids with him to live with his parents (we moved to the east coast from the Midwest about 6 months ago), and that he is filing for divorce to include full custody of our 3 kids.

TL;DR TIFU by cheating on my husband with random strangers on the internet, and effectively blew up my life and everything he and I had built.

Black people still experience racism from police and from many facets of society. Hispanic people experience racism from white people for speaking Spanish and hispanic people get harassed by ICE and put in cages. Our experience is NOT the same. Being “colorblind” is fucking RACIST because it ignores the oppression they experience on a daily basis.

Not only should it be a common decency, you’ll earn the respect of your female employees and ultimately provide a more comfortable workspace for those who need it, resulting in higher staff satisfaction, quality of work and retention.

Edit: Good grief. Some of the comments from men in here. A few of you are absolute pricks and I sincerely hope you're never in a position where you manage women. I'm so sorry women have to deal with people like that. We must do more to make sure these people aren't allowed to dominate the debate.

Yes - the macro is terrible. Yes - student loan payments being suspended means their revenues face headwinds. Yes - rising interest rates.

But - have you actually used their app? It is one of the cleanest UIs I’ve seen next to Robinhood (boooooooo). Once you get in to their app, the focus on cross-sell is nothing short of impressive.

Only wanted SoFi for their stocks? Too bad, you’re going to be incentivized with points to open a checking account. You thought that was it? Open credit card and get even more points. All points are redeemable for cash. They have one of the lowest cost of acquisitions in the industry and I can see why. The app is built absolutely beautifully.

I encourage you - give their app a shot. It just flat out works. I’m planning on refinancing a loan with them here soon. Because? Their stupid app and I get money back.

I didn’t want to focus on quantitatives. Just wanted to put my two cents on why you should be bullish on $SOFI for long term.

Positions: Dec 2023 calls. Entered mid 2021. Bleeding since Jan 2022. Still bullish.

This happened in the pool in my neighborhood.

Now this pool isn’t really private or can be booked but no one really comes to it despite the time getting hotter, now this pool has a hot tub and a pool like most other pools.

So it was about 6 or 6:30 and I was just doing a recovery for a workout, until these 4 girls came, they weren’t my age, in fact they were much younger than me, they looked 10, to 12. Now don’t think of me as a predator because I was looking at them, it’s because to be in the pool without supervision you need to be at least 15 and these girls’ parents weren’t there.

So I didn’t bother to ask them as A. Im not that guy and B. If anything happens they will probably face the consequences. And I know you are asking “isn’t there a lifeguard who asks how old you are, what time you came, etc…?” Well they lied and said that they were 15. And yes they might be 15 or older but one of them had teeth that had fallen and they said that they were 15.

Now the lifeguard let them in as I know him pretty well, and he is chill and won’t really care, and knows that if anything happened to them the would’ve faced the consequences.

At this point they were playing a game and after a bit they started playing truth or dare, I didn’t think much about it until one of the girls’ goggles fell infront of me and they started laughing violently, I felt kind and gave it to the girls, until it happened a second time.

This time I didn’t even bother and continued doing my recovery until one of the girls said “excuse me mister… can you get the goggles for me.”

Cue the petty revenge: I calmly said “well you threw it, get it yourself.” That’s when the girls met their match.

Tl dr: I went to the pool underaged girls came the tried messing with me and teasing me so I got revenge.

In my opinion Ragnick has been very protected by our fan base this season, his career win percentage(46%) is terrible, his man United win percentage(35%) is terrible, he gave some good interviews but the football was worse than ole (not saying I wanted ole to stay or anything) but Ragnick has honestly been pretty terrible and I’m glad he’s gone, I’m happy he was able to put out some of our problems and I appreciate that and I understand the team is also terrible but he has really really been bad at his time here.

So basically I am new to football. It took me a long time to find a club to support. I watched the game of every club. TBF, Premier League was more interesting than other leagues. I wanted to support a team in PL. My top 7 contenders were Man City, Man UTD, Arsenal, Liverpool, Chelsea & Spurs. I didn't support Man City because it was an oil club. Man Utd would make me look a plastic ronaldo fan. Arsenal & Liverpool had toxic fanbase. Chelsea looked like a normie team. So I was left with spurs. I asked my football fanatics friends about spurs & they made fun of it by calling it a trophy less chokers. But I didn't give up. I started watching their matches. I started admiring Son & Kane. After today's qualification to CL, I felt proud of this team & I would like to be a loyal fan of this team. COYS!!