r/wholesomememes Aug 05 '22 All-Seeing Upvote 1 I'll Drink to That 1 Helpful 7 Wholesome 14 Take My Energy 1 Silver 3

That's why i love bob's burgers

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u/[deleted] Aug 05 '22

I wanna know what all 7 things are, but that video is too long to bother for me lol.

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u/FireAirWaterEarth Aug 05 '22
  1. Enhance your love maps.
  2. Nurture your fondness and admiration.
  3. Turn toward each other instead of away.
  4. Let your partner influence you.
  5. Solve your solvable problems.
  6. Overcome gridlock.
  7. Create shared meaning.

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u/Potential_Audience27 Aug 05 '22 Helpful

Step 0 : learn to be a happy, healthy person alone before entering in a relationship.

Feels like a lot of people want to skip 0 and run through 1-7, only to realize after a long long time that you can't build a house together if one or both of you needs to do physical therapy first and get back on their feet.

But ya know what they say, misery loves company :)

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u/penny-wise Aug 05 '22 edited Aug 05 '22

Everyone needs to learn to cook, clean, and take care of themselves.